31 Oct 2012

**Story of Appreciation**



One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.
...

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research,
Never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked,
"Did you obtain any scholarships in school?"
The youth answered "none".

The director asked,
" Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
The youth answered,
"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked,
" Where did your mother work?"
The youth answered,
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked,
" Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
The youth answered,
"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books.
Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said,
"I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother's hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked:
" Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered,
" I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked,
" please tell me your feelings."

The youth said,
Number 1,
I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today.
Number 2,
By working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.
Number 3,
I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said,
" This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality"and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts.
When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others.
For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement.
He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, give him a Driver & Car for going around, Eat a Good Meal, learn Piano, Watch a Big Screen TV. But when you are Cutting Grass, please let them experience it. After a Meal, let them Wash their Plates and Bowls together with their Brothers and Sisters. Tell them to Travel in Public Bus, It is not because you do not have Money for Car or to Hire a Maid, but it is because you want to Love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will Grow Grey, same as the Mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done..
 
 
yang ini aku cedok kat fb
 

30 Oct 2012

aku ada,kau ada?


actually baru tengok citer ni semalam.
yelah cuti ada lagi kan.hahah.
disebabkan aku ni bukan orang berada.
jadi donlod sebagai alternatif.
secara haram dalam kata mudahnya.
tak ori.
dah lama download.
tapi baru tengok.

gara-gara pengaruh rakan sebaya,
maka aku tengok.
yelah kawan aku dok pung pang pung pang,
kelakar itu ini.
maka atas inisiatif aku yang berbaki,
aku download dan tengok.

before tekan butang play,
wah eksaited kemain.
then bila dah start...
=.=
=.=
brrrrrr
brrrrrrrr


harap latar tempat je yang cool.


sebagai konklusi,
aku bersyukur aku tak baziaq duit,
untuk beli tiket wayang.
aku pon bukan kaki wayang.


sometimes aku wonder,
why cerekarama kat tv3 tu tak jadi filem.
as for me kadang-kadang cerekarama kat tv3 tu
boleh jadi lebih menarik daripada filem-filem
kat panggung wayang.

aku,dia dan tong sampah.
walaupon tajuknya buat kau...
apa?!!macam takde tajuk lain je!!

 
tajuk dia pon aku,dia dan tong sampah,latar tempat apa lagi yang kau harapkan?


tapi bila tengok ,
buat kau tersenyum puas.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 


-jangan marah mereka tak sokong filem tempatan tapi lihat dulu jalan cerita sendiri bentangkan-


29 Oct 2012

Biggest Loser



aku rasa rancangan biggest loser
patut ada kat malaysia.
kat tv3.
ntv7 ke.
8tv pun boleh.
sebab aku takde astro.



dengan adanya rancangan ini,
orang yang obes termotivated ah sikit.
pastu paparkan rutin eksesais dorang.
orang bmi normal pun boleh ikut,
barulah healthy lifestyles.
rating mesti tinggi.
kata Malaysia banyak yang obes.
y not buat.

28 Oct 2012

adam dan hawa

aku baru tengok cerita adam dan hawa.
ye aku baru ada masa nak tengok.
=.=.
episod 12.
time Ain kena tangkap khalwat dengan Am.
kenapa cerita melayu selalu macam tu.
i mean mak dia tak percaya kat anak dia?
takkan mak dia tak kenal dengan anak dia.
kenapa mak dia tak fikir any possibilities
yang mungkin berlaku.
ibarat matematik tajuk probability.
ibarat ketika belajar subjek operation research.
kalau aku jadi mak dia, aku percaya,
sebab aku tahu anak aku macam mana.


dalam aku dok tanya kenapa y y y?
dalam hati.
aku tanya mak aku.
which is berlaku petang semalam.

"ma, andaikata anak mama kena tangkap khalwat, mak percaya anak mama or orang lain?"
"tak nak.mama tak nak."

"i mean what if? if jadi macam tu?"

"macam mana boleh jadi macam tu.mama tak nak those situation happens."
 

aku try persuade mak aku lagi.

"konon la jadi. sebab tadi tengok citer adam dan hawa."

"kalau boleh mama tak nak situasi cenggitu."


then mak aku menjawab guna kaedah yang selamat.

"kena tengok keadaan macam mana, kadang-kadang orang saja buat perangkap." 

"habis mama tak percaya kat anak mama?"

"tu lah mama cakap, kena tengok situasi."

"tapi kenapa mak Ain tu tak percayakan anak dia?"

"mama kenal anak mama macam mana."


end of conversations.





kenapa ramai kutuk nadiya nissa?
ok je tengok.
aku tengok wanita hari ini.
takde lah hari ini sangatt.
ini kisah semalam.
wanita hari ini yang semalam.

topik berkaitan pengorbanan.
hari raya haji.
memang tu lah akan jadi topik.
well semalam pasal pengorbanan suami.

satu suami,bini dia lumpuh..
yet mereka still bersama.
satu lagi,bini dia sakit.
tak tau sakit apa,
the fact that aku kat rumah nenek,
and suasana meriah dengan jeritan kekanak.
aku hanya mampu tengok 'mereka' miming di tv.

aku sangat kagum.
bini dia sakit-sakit gitu,
kurus gila sebab sakit,
and yet suami dia still jaga,
sanggup berhenti kerja,
sebab nak jaga bini dia.
solat dan baca al-quran,
doakan isteri dia.
itu suami mithali.
may Allah bless him and his spouse.



then,tak lama lepas tu,
al-hidayah lak ke udara.
same.
pengorbanan suami.
isteri dia buta,
sejak lahir i guess.
suami dia still setia bersama.
aku kagum kat both of them.
isteri walaupun buta,
boleh buat kerja rumah seperti orang biasa.
respect!

 
kebahagian bukan pada paras rupa, 
jodoh datang bukan kerana paras rupa,
Allah Maha Adil,
tak perlu risau gundah gulana,
Allah jadikan semua berpasangan,
hang toksah sibuk dok,
surat buat bakal zaujku/zaujahku bagai,
jodoh sudah ditetapkan,
cepat atau lambat,
chill bro,sis,
masa tu akan tiba.





26 Oct 2012

Hari Raya Haji

I would rather say...

Selamat Menghayati Hari Raya AidilAdha.


instead of

Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya AidilAdha.





Hari Raya AidilAdha bukan sekadar
menikmati daging lembu,kambing,unta...
sampai burrrppp oh kenyang!
it is more on how we understand the word 'SACRIFICE' itself.

so selamat menghayati.
:))

25 Oct 2012

on the way Raya Haji~

Assalamualaikum.
nak habaq mai,
post ni tak berkaitan sangat pon dengan raya haji.

berkaitan perjalanan on the way balik rumah
untuk raya haji.

rabu baru ni aku cadang balik rumah
naik bas.

makanya bermulalah kisah pengembaraan
balik ke rumah.

jam 3:30 petang aku dah terpacak kat bus stop dalam UiTM
berhampiran kolej mawar.
tak lama lepas tu
bas seksyen 2 sampai.
aku naik.

....................

bas sampai seksyen 2.
aku turun.

tunggu.
tunggu.
tunggu.
dan tunggu.

ye tunggu pemandu bas U80.
bas ada tapi pemandu belum ada.

15 jam minit kemudian.
pakcik bas yang bergaya sampai.

aku toleh ke arah beliau.
tanpa di sangka-sangka,
pak cik itu memberi command
menggunakan suara jantan beliau.

(baju merah melambangkan pak cik rapid)

ye.
teringat pulak aku zaman masuk kesatria negara masa sem 1.
unik sungguh.
aku hanya mampu...

 
 
aku naik bas tersebut.
perjalanan bermula.
dari bus stop ke bus stop,
bilangan yang naik bertambah,

bilangan yang turun hamboi sikit.

 
as a conclusion bas tersebut jadi sardin.
cekodok penyek pon boleh.
 

(bas rapid yang takde pintu.sekian)

disebabkan dah petang.
jam pun hampir ke 5:00 petang,
makanya berpusu-pusu lah,
encik dan puan bekerjaya mahu pulang
dari tempat kerja.
jem.dan bertambah dugaanlah kepada kami
yang berhimpit-himpit untuk meneruskan
kelangsungan hidup.

sampai bangsar.
aku turun.

fuhh lega!!!


naik lrt.
turun masjid jamek.
menghala ke stesen cempaka.
turun cempaka.

call encik ayah,
mana tahu untung-untung boleh jemput,
alang-alang balik dari kerja.
hampa.
maka naik bas.

bas yang sedia ada T324.
agak musykil dengan laluan yang terpapar.
memandangkan ia satu-satunya bas yang ada,

aku naik dengan konfiden.

ye saya ulang.KONFIDEN.


duduk 1 minit.

duduk 2 minit.

duduk 3 minit.

duduk 18 minit.


akhirnya bas bergerak.
tiba-tiba...
ada lagi satu bas park betul-betul
belakang bas yang aku naik.
aku toleh-toleh.
terpapar...

 
tasik tambahan!

 
dan mulalah sesi mengutuk diri sendiri.
 
"demmm aku salah bas!"

 
nak turun malu.duit singgit jangan dibazirkan.
ahh tak sempat lagi.
 
 
 
perjalanan diteruskan.
nasib aku baik sebab bas T324
lalu jugak kawasan yang berhampiran
tapi jauh sikit.
 
 
sepanjang aku dalam bas,
maki diri sendiri.
bas berhenti.
penumpang naik.
budak sekolah.
aneh.
aku nampak...
 
 
 
 
jam tangan yang digantung
pada tempat laluan tali pinggang.
(ah hentam lah labu)

pelik.
dan saat budak itu berlalu untuk duduk,
aku perasan sesuatu.
dia pakai beg sebijik macam yang aku pakai masa tu.
aku...

 
 
 
 
 
-tamat-

 
 

5 Oct 2012

gadis itu dan purdahnya


Assalamualaikum.
just found this on facebook.


Saya xde masalah org nk upload gambar, dh gmbar die. biar ah.
Tp trend skrang, makin ramai wanita berpurdah yg upload gmbar mereka sorang2 yg berpurdah n posing2 sopan. n ramai laki akan like. N akan komen2 cantiknya.. solehahnya.. sopannya DLL. Bijaknya Syaitan cucuk jarumnya pada anak Adam n Hawa. Jd rsa terpanggil utk berpesan…

Jaga2 sahabatku yg rasa dia PEREMPUAN..

Rasulullah SAW b’sabda :
“ Aku tidak tinggalkan fitnah yang lebih buruk selepas kewafatanku berbanding fitnah perempuan terhadap lelaki”. - Riwayat Bukhari



Namun di sana banyak kemuliaanmu wanita. Hatta ada surah khusus dalam Al-Quran ( An-nisa’ ).
Rasulullah SAW b’sabda :



"Harta yang paling berharga di dunia adalah wanita yang solehah." - Riwayat Muslim
 

Saidatina Aisyah RA pun pernah berpesan :


"Sebaik-baik wanita adalah yang tidak memandang dan dipandang"



So?

~ Jangan kau berasa bangga dengan kecantikanmu sehingga kau dikejar jutaan lelaki. Itu bukan kemuliaan untukmu.


~ Jika kau berasa bangga, kau seolah menyamakan dirimu dengan pepasir di pantai, yang boleh dipijak dan dimiliki sesiapa sahaja.


~ Muliakanlah dirimu dengan taqwa, setanding mutiara Zabarjad, yang hanya mampu dimiliki penghuni syurga.


Ingat Kawan… Nilai wanita bukan terletak pada pakaiannya yang menonjol, berhias diri untuk memperlihatkan kecantikannya, tetapi hakikatnya ialah pada kesopanan, rasa malu dan keterbatasan dalam pergaulan. Jangan campur kebaikan dengan kebatilan. Hanya demi-MU Allah nasihatku ini... Peace with Imaan~~~~ ^_^
 
 copy from Abdul Fattah sahabat UIA :) 



2 Oct 2012

grapefruit

Assalamualaikum.

baru-baru ni,
setelah berhempas-pulas menghabiskan
larian,jogging-an,jalanan,
sebanyak dua round
kat tasik seksyen 2,
aku dengan tenaga yang berbaki,
menggigihkan diri menapak ke SACC,
meluru masuk ke GIANT.

hommaii
peluh jangan cakap.
depan belakang basah baju.
tapi like i care,
redah je.

sejak dua menjak ni
ada kesedaran nak hidup gaya sihat
dengan makan buah.
so nak lah beli buah epal sebiji dua.
my fav fuji.

then ternampak satu buah ni.
macam buah oren tapi besar yang amat.
geram nengoknye.
nama buah tersebut rupanya grapefruit.
pernah lah ternampak nama buah ni
waktu main game cari benda tersembunyi.


aku beli dengan harapan
ianya sedap kerana
ianya nampak sedap.
 
 
 
aku target dia rasa cam buah oren tapi manis.
heuheuheu.
ye expectation kena tinggi.




balik kolej dengan
rakusnya aku try.
hammiiikkkk kau,
masam dan pahit,
manis tu perkataan yang
jauh sekali untuk dikaitkan.
sekian.

tapi warna isi dia lawa woh!








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